Some thoughts I recently shared with my congregation:
Merry Christmas and congratulations—you survived the day after Thanksgiving! Of course there are more days of shopping peril left, but ‘tis the season to take it one day at a time. Many of us need to take the Christmas season one day at a time just to maintain our sanity in the midst of the holiday busyness and the shoppers’ angst.
When we look at all we have to do between now and Christmas the temptation is to simply try to reach the end. You know what I mean, the relieved collapse on the sofa on Christmas night. For most of us the words to the beloved carol, “Silent night, holy night, all is calm…” have no meaning until December 26. In order to put the silent nights back into the Christmas season we have to take it one day at a time. We also need to practice self-discipline. Yes, self-discipline is a scary and foul word in our culture, about as welcome as a stale fruit cake this time of year. Even a little self-discipline, however, can bring some silence and calm back to our holiday season.
Take a time out every night until Christmas. Intentionally set aside a block of time to soak in the silence and calm, even 10 minutes will work wonders. No television. No cleaning. No wrapping presents. I enjoy turning all the lights off except the lights on the Christmas tree and in my mind traveling to Israel 2,000 years ago. I imagine being a shepherd watching my flock under the stars. I imagine the surreal wonder of looking on the Christ child and realizing what this gift means about God’s love for the world—God’s love for me. What if every night we took a moment to hear the still small voice of THE Reason for the season?
We won’t take this time out without self-discipline. We would all like to experience silent and calm nights but we forget and quickly give up. The best friend of self-discipline is often creativity. Make a sign saying, “Silent night, Holy night” and hang it on the refrigerator as a reminder. Get together with a friend or loved one to remind each other to take a time out at an agreed upon time. Leave a note on your pillow to jog your memory before bed. Even a short time of a “silent night when all is calm” will change your Christmas season—one day at a time. I guarantee it.
One of the high points of most Christmas Eve services is singing Silent Night by candlelight. Oftentimes the words to that song seem to be more of a far away pipe dream than the reality of our Christmas. What a joy it would be this year to sing Silent Night as an expression of what we have experienced and felt already in the days leading up to Christmas. I pray that this will be the case and that God would bless you with self-discipline and the wonder of His still small voice this Christmas season.

